In the midst of divorce, adultery, and sexual dissatisfaction within marriages, the Church tells spouses to respect one another, communicate more deeply, and be self-giving… not selfish. Specifically, why does the man reach orgasm before the woman? It is sacred and more beautiful than our current secular culture could ever try to make it. Remember that sex is made for something wonderful. They can establish elaborate rationales based on an abusive interpretation of St. This goes for women too. From this specific definition, coupled with the definition of lust, it follows that if a married couple engages in oral sex and this act results in orgasm, then the act is immoral by its very nature.
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What Does the Church Teach About Oral Sex?
As long as we respect our natural limits, then start by reading the Song of Songs with your spouse and then enjoy! I know this is an old post, but no one else seems to be writing about this and it is something that interests me a lot, so thank you first of all. So there can certainly be oral stimulation throughout sexual activity within marriage, but if one is using oral sex simply to avoid pregnancy yet achieve orgasms, then one is limiting their sexual union to merely give arousal rather than intimacy. The similarity of the stimulation caused by oral relations to natural intercourse makes it likely that from time to time, at least, if a couple uses this means of stimulation, the man will ejaculate before natural intercourse. Christopher West, Expert in St. Most Reverend Charles J. Human Love in the Divine Plan.